Hate Family?

I am grateful for the learning opportunities given during the 2026 annual convention of the Iowa Honey Producers Association.

“If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple.”

Luke 14:26

28 Then one of the scribes came, and having heard them reasoning together, perceiving that He had answered them well, asked Him, “Which is the first commandment of all?”

29 Jesus answered him, “The first of all the commandments is: ‘Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one. 30 And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ This is the first commandment. 31 And the second, like it, is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”  

Mark 12

“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you.

Exodus 20:12

But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Matthew 6:33

Me: Good morning, Father!

Abba: Good morning, Jon!

Me: Did Jesus’ hearers understand His statement about whom one must “hate” to be His disciple?

Abba: If they wanted to understand they would have realized He was making an emphatic statement that one’s relationship with Me must come first. You know that truly loving others requires My love operating through you.

“I am the vine; you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing.

John 15:5

23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. 24 And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25 If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. 26 Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another.

Galatians 5

Do you see that the fruit of the Spirit is essential to good relationships? Love is the first thing in the list. There were some who did not understand what Jesus was saying in the day He said it. But today, the Spirit does guide into all the truth (John 16:13). Following Me does not lessen love for others. Following Me makes it possible.

Me: Thank You, Father! I love You!

Abba: You are welcome! I love you!

Faith by Grace

For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.

Ephesians 2:8-9

Neither. Neither grace nor faith. Neither were mustered by us out of some internal recess.

Grace: the unmerited favor of God offered to us. What does the scripture say about faith?

3 For I say, through the grace given to me, to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly, as God has dealt to each one a measure of faith.

Romans 12:3

What is the measure, by which faith is meted to us? The KJV has this “the measure” instead of “a measure”. Is it the same for everyone, or does the article leave the way open for different measures to various individuals?

I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me. 21 I do not set aside the grace of God; for if righteousness comes through the law, then Christ died in vain.”

Galatians 2:20-21

If Christ lives in us, it is His faith. That is the measure. We then live by faith. Does this seem like a circular argument? Notice the passage in Galatians 2 is filled with reference to His giving of Himself and the grace of God. If that is not clear enough, verse 21 emphasizes that our own effort is ineffective.

Thank You Jesus, for coming to live in us if we will only accept your awesome gift!

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The First and the Last

I am grateful to have those mirrors up in the exercise room (previous post). Knowing that I was long procrastinating on doing that work has been nagging in the background. I am grateful for You showing me how to handle them successfully.

But many who are first will be last and the last first.

Mark 10:31

Me: Good morning, Father!

Abba: Good morning, Jon!

Me: Would you tell me what Jesus was saying in Mark 10:31? This comes after the story of the “rich young ruler” who went away downcast, and then Jesus talked with His disciples about the difficulty of saving the rich.

Abba: Consider the context. The rich can be considered those who are “first” in position, authority, influence, responsibility, and so on. Why are they last in finding a relationship with Me? Because following Me requires putting me first instead.

But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Matthew 6:23

There is a place to operate in authority, influence, and responsibility. Properly, these things are added by Me to the one who is wholly given to Me for My own purposes. Otherwise, they will block finding a vital relationship with me. The one who is seeking these things on his own is serving those things and his own desires.

Contrary to that, there is this that David found:

Delight yourself also in the Lord,
And He shall give you the desires of your heart.

Psalms 37:4

Read that to mean I will fill your heart with My desires.

Me: Thank You, Father! I love You!

Abba: You are welcome, Jon! I love you!

End of Procrastination

… at least on this exercise room project.

Declaring the end from the beginning, And from ancient times things that are not yet done, Saying, ‘My counsel shall stand, And I will do all My pleasure,’

Isaiah 46:10
Six Mirrors (plus a partial) Up

We ordered these mirrors five years ago, and they have been leaning up in the front of the garage in their crates, ever since they were delivered. Mainly because I couldn’t quite figure out how to handle them. They are 4’x8′ quarter inch glass and weight a little over 100 pounds each. Does putting those up in the exercise room qualify as exercise?

After breaking the first one, this homemade glass cart came into existence, which enabled moving them from the garage to the exercise room in one piece.

Homemade Glass Cart

The glass cart is pretty obviously composed of two piano dollies and some scrap lumber. There is a piece of 3/4″ plywood tying the two together at the bottom. The lumber laying on the cart in the picture was a 2×6 that I ripped in half and then cut a dado slot halfway through from the edge. By placing those on each long edge of the mirrors, they were stiffened enough that they could be stood up longways without breaking over my head. I used a couple of lengths of perforated plumbing strap to tie the stiffeners together so they would not slip off the edge while raising each mirror. The strap was wrapped around to the outside edge and screwed with a single #6 by 1″ drywall screw. A longer drywall screw would possibly have touched the mirror, so short is important.

Without ever having measured, I had it in my head that the ceiling was higher than eight feet. Based on that assumption, I had made nice baseboards with a quarter-inch dado for the mirrors to sit in. Only after moving in the second mirror, did I discover my error. The baseboards had to be removed because the ceiling only allowed about one-half inch of clearance for the eight-foot mirrors if they were sitting directly on the carpeted floor. I will reinstall them after I cut them down to fit where the mirrors are not. I am grateful for that half-inch of clearance.

Based on my error about the height, I had bought sliding mirror clips. That proved to be unworkable because of the tight fit. The tops are held to the wall by a cleat screwed into the ceiling. (Instead of sheetrock, the room is sheeted with oriented strand board that was sealed with oil-based barn paint. The exercise room is framed inside a pole barn with six-inch insulated walls.)

If you look closely on the right side of first picture, you can see a 58″x26″ mirror horizontal near the floor. This is the largest piece left from the broken one. My wife thought that would help her with floor work on the mat. I now have lots of smaller mirrors salvaged from the broken one. Not sure what to do with those, but cutting it up in to usable sections seemed better than throwing the bulk of it away.

The original plans had to be modified as the project went along and I discovered that my plans were not going to work as anticipated. I will admit, I am happy to have this done (finally). I come back to the quote from Isaiah that I opened with, Only He has flawless plans. The rest of us are wise if we align with His plans.

Be of Good Courage

I am grateful for help with how to get the modifications to the exercise room done!

Wait on the Lord;
Be of good courage,
And He shall strengthen your heart;
Wait, I say, on the Lord!

Ps 27:14

Me: Good morning, Father!

Abba: Good morning, Jon!

Me: The order of this exhortation is perplexing. Does it mean be of good courage and then you will strengthen?

Abba: The phrase has the call to wait on Me as two book ends. One who waits on Me is recognizing his own inadequacy to the task.

Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”

Joshua 1:9

Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Hebrews 13:5

And the Lord, He is the One who goes before you. He will be with you, He will not leave you nor forsake you; do not fear nor be dismayed.”

Deuteronomy 31:8

One who does not wait on Me is forging ahead relying on his own devices and strength rather than counting on My omnipotence (and omnipresence).

Look at all of Psalm 46:

I AM your refuge and strength.
I AM a very present help in trouble.
I AM the river that makes glad.
I AM your protector.
I AM with you.

Be still and know that I AM God. Come, behold the works of the Lord.

If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you. By this My Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit; so you will be My disciples.

John 15:7-8

Wait upon Me.

Me: Thank You Father! I love You!

Abba: You are welcome! I love you!

Homemade glass cart
Homemade Glass Cart
First 4’x8′ mirror (weight 100 pounds)
Second Mirror – Not a perfectly-aligned retroreflector